Start by Listening
Have an open conversation about how they’re managing daily tasks. Rather than jumping straight to solutions, ask about their experiences and concerns. You might say, “I’ve noticed you seem tired lately – how are you finding things at home?”
Choose the Right Time and Place
Pick a quiet, private moment when you’re both relaxed and have time to talk. A casual setting like having coffee together can help keep the conversation natural.
Focus on Independence
Frame home care as a way to maintain independence rather than lose it. For example: “Having some help with the heavy cleaning could give you more energy to spend on the activities you enjoy.”
Address Specific Needs
Instead of general statements, point to concrete examples: “I know the stairs have been challenging lately. A care worker could help make sure you can move around safely.”
Present Options
Give them control over the decision-making process. Research different home care services beforehand and present choices: “There are services that can help with cooking, others focus on companionship, and some provide medical support. What kind of help would feel most useful to you?”
Listen to Concerns
They may worry about cost, privacy, or having strangers in their homes. Validate these feelings and work together to find solutions. Sometimes it helps to start small – perhaps with just a few hours of help per week.
Follow Their Lead
If they’re not ready to accept help, don’t force the issue unless there’s an immediate safety concern. You can always revisit the conversation later while continuing to show support and understanding.
Call (561) 206-0015 to speak with our compassionate care team for home care resources and support.